I'm not really sure to have understood what you're trying to do, but I would try to keep a content-name relation instead of name-name.
if I do something like
MyComboBox.add("apple")
and then create a textbox called MyTextBox3
then the relation would be "apple,3" stored on a table row, therefore, when the item "apple" gets deleted or selected, I would know the related textbox
hehe, I might as well be very off base here
how are you currently keeping the relations?