On the desktop you could try altering the button FlatStyle to see if it looks like what you want. Obj1 is a Door library Oobject.
Code:
Obj1.New1(False)
Obj1.FromControl("Button1")
Obj1.SetProperty("FlatStyle", "Flat")
Valid styles are "Flat", "Popup" (flat till mouse-overed) and "Standard" (three-dimensional) and "System" (however the OS wants to draw it).