'Adds a custom item at the specified index.
Public Sub InsertAt(Index As Int, Pnl As Panel, ItemHeight As Int, Value As Object)
Dim sd As StateListDrawable
sd.Initialize
sd.AddState(sd.State_Pressed, pressedDrawable)
sd.AddCatchAllState(Pnl.Background)
'create another panel to handle the click event
Dim p As Panel
If Index = 2 Then '@@ OR whatever you desired condition might be ...
p.Initialize("") ' Do not assign an Event to this panel / row.. No Sound / No Select
Else
p.Initialize("panel")
End If
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