'I tried like this
AS_TabMenuAdvanced1.AddTab("Test",xui.LoadBitmap(File.DirAssets,"ico256_256.png"),xui.LoadBitmap(File.DirAssets,"UnSelectIco256_256.png"))
'and also like this
AS_TabMenuAdvanced1.GetTab(4).xTab.IconSelected = xui.LoadBitmap(File.DirAssets,"ico256_256.png")