Ok - here is a long reply. Maybe it will help you. (NB - All code below comes from various contributors on this forum - thanks to all !!)
I have just been through this exercise (and almost lost a contract and been accused of not having the skills to put a "professional" product on the market).
I have 3 device (all Samsungs - my development device being a Galaxy S8+) on which I do most of my work. I designed all my screens (all 77 of them) on this device and everything worked perfectly and looked spectacular. Then came the crunch - one of my clients with exactly the same device reported that none of my screens were fitting on his device. Now this sounds impossible - but after some screen shots - it was confirmed true.
See Correct Screen below - this is how it was intended

and Faulty Screen is how it appeared on the other similar device (S8+).

 or this 
 
I had done all correctly and according to accepted standards (anchors, variants etc) but still no joy, then by accident I found out that SAMSUNG have a place where you can set screen sizes and font sizes and fonts on their Galaxies running Android 8.0 (not sure if this was available before), effectively giving a combination of 27 different settings on one device. On further investigation I found that this was the culprit and was causing all the pain and now listed below is how I found this and corrected it with a method, which is probably not the way to do things - but it works for me.   Below is how you change the font settings etc on a Samsung running Android 8
 
After checking on my S8+ with all screen sizes in the IDE, I got 3 different variants from the 3 different settings, These were:
411 x 797 x 1
360 x 692 x 1
320 x 609 x 1
and they should adjust perfectly with anchors (which they do - provided....) but the problem comes now with the font settings. You have 7 Font sizes and 5 default fonts (remember a thing called kerning ?) which will give you an effective 
35 different permutations AND you cannot dictate to your customer which setting to use !!
So how did I solve this or do a work around ?
1. I went to every screen design and put in a derivative of 360 x 692 x 1 AND deleted all the others.
2. I then created a spreadsheet as in the figure below:
 
3. Now I went to my Designer (and this is a bit of donkey work) and changed each item in my screen design to accept percentages (which I got from the spreadsheet) - something like this
 
4. Once this was complete (and I now know that my design will fit any screen size now), I then turned to my app and did the following to take care of the Font size issue:
In the Main Module I ticked the 
Accessibility Library
 Secondly I did this
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		Sub Process_Globals
       Public access As Accessiblity
End Sub
	 
	
	
		
	
 
and then this:
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		Sub ResetUserFontScale(p As Panel)
    For Each v As View In p
        If v Is Panel Then
            ResetUserFontScale(v)
        Else If v Is Label Then
            Dim lbl As Label = v
            lbl.TextSize = lbl.TextSize / access.GetUserFontScale
        Else If v Is Spinner Then
            Dim s As Spinner = v
            s.TextSize = s.TextSize / access.GetUserFontScale
        Else If v  is Button Then
            Dim b as Button = v
            b.TextSize = b.TextSize / access.GetUserFontScale
        End If
    Next
End Sub
	 
	
	
		
	
 
and called it from Activity_Create like this
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		Sub Activity_Create(FirstTime As Boolean)
       ResetUserFontScale(Activity)
End Sub
	 
	
	
		
	
 
and in some places I just did this:
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		       editText.TextSize = editText.TextSize / access.GetUserFontScale
       ' and to call it from other modules use
        editText.TextSize = editText.TextSize / Main.access.GetUserFontScale
	 
	
	
		
	
 
I also checked and changed several places with items as listed below:
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
	
		    Private ExpandedHeight As Int = 23.1%y
    Private CollapsedHeight As Int = 11.6%y
    'or this
    pnlFavourite.SetLayoutAnimated(1000, 8.35%x, 58%y, 83.3%x, 31.8%y) 'as required
	 
	
	
		
	
 
This  might seem like a long drawn out process, but I know now that it fits on any screen derivative and all the fonts are perfect every time as designed, especially the problem you have had with loading a layout into a Custom List (one of my biggest headaches) amongst others.
Remember, when testing - first set your device to one size - test, then the next size, test etc - the only way to make sure and actually have 3 devices in your hand.
And as 
@Peter Simpson would say:
Enjoy dot dot dot  
Anything you are unsure of or that is not clear - please ask.